Her close friend had a fake wedding photo of them in his wallet, but he replaced it with a photo of her girlfriend. This made her feel sad, as she felt like he was replacing her with someone else.
A user took forum and asked Am I wrong to confront my friend for taking our picture out of his wallet to replace it with his girlfriend?
BACKSTORY
OP and her best friend, John, have been friends since they were kids. OP says that as kids, she and John were very close, and they had a fake wedding when they were 7 and 8.
They Created Fake Pics
OP also added that they recreated fake wedding pics in high school, and John had one of those pics in his wallet.
JOHN GOT A GIRLFRIEND
John got a girlfriend, Dinah, around two years ago. Now John has distanced himself from OP. OP says that she and John still hang out, but she feels John always makes time for Dinah first instead of OP.
WHAT DOES OP SAY
OP says that The only way she can see John now is if they go grab coffee once every few days, but other than that, John was not coming to her house.
OP Says She Feels Neglected
OP also admits that she and John used to have sleepovers and movie nights when they were friends. And John had also stopped inviting her to his house.
OP says that she feels neglected and hurt because they have been inseparable since they were small kids.
OP GOT HURT
A couple of days ago, OP grabbed coffee with John at a coffee shop, and when he opened his wallet to grab his card and pay, OP noticed that he had put a pic of Dinah and him in the place where he had their fake wedding pic.
OP Asked John About It
OP asked John about it, and he, in turn, asked her how she had noticed. OP asked John why he had to take their picture out and replace it with his and his girlfriend’s photo.
John said that Dinah was his girlfriend and wondered why OP was making a big deal about it.
WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?
OP reminded John that Dinah might be his gf, but he can’t just throw OP away because OP has been his best friend since primary school.
OP also said that her pic existed in John’s wallet first, and he threw it away to replace her with someone he knows significantly less.
WHAT DID HE SAY
He got annoyed and told OP that once she stopped being immature and annoying, he would talk to her again.
And John also asked OP to leave him to his peace because he could not deal with her childish tantrum.
IT IS UNHEALTHY
“Fake weddings at 7 are pretty cute, recreating fake weddings in high school is super weird, being incensed that he’s not carrying around the picture from the second fake wedding years later is… let’s say deeply unhealthy.”
YOU HAVE TO MOVE ON
“I think OP’s telling line is: “I told him he couldn’t just throw me away.”
Oh, that poor dear, yes, friends can throw you away! Yes, it hurts and is kinda rude, but life happens. There is no law that says your childhood friends must be your friends forever.”
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