When you’re living together, you should always ask the other person if they want anything while ordering food for yourself.
The Original Poster (OP) took it to the forum, and asked “Am I wrong for expecting hubby to ask me if I want takeout when he orders?”. We want to know from you.
OP and her husband both work from home.
HER HUSBAND’S NATURE
OP’s husband keeps ordering food online pretty often.
HE DOESN’T ASK HER
While ordering food for himself, OP’s husband never asks OP if she wants something to eat as well.
WHAT DOES OP NOTICE?
OP often notices while she is working on her laptop, her husband often gets food delivered for himself and eats it by himself as well.
WHAT DID OP DO ABOUT IT?
OP talked to her husband and let him know that it was inconsiderate of him to get food for himself without even asking OP if she wanted something as well.
OP’S HUSBAND’S REACTION
OP’s husband still doesn’t think he did anything wrong and thinks that OP is overreacting.
WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?
OP is hurt! She is also unsure if she’s actually overreacting. All she knows is that she would never do it to her husband.
Now OP wants to know if this is wrong.
WHAT DO PEOPLE THINK?
“That is totally inconsiderate. My husband and I would never do that to each other. How selfish of him.”, said one user.
“Honestly, asking is basic human decency.”, said another user.
THIS ISN’T THE ONLY TIME HE IS INCONSIDERATE
“Not only is this horrible behavior, if OP was going to start ordering her own food, it means 2 x the delivery and tips for every meal. What a waste of money. I have a feeling this isn’t the only time he is inconsiderate.”
I CAN’T IMAGINE NOT THINKING OF MY SPOUSE
“I ask my wife if she needs anything when I’m literally just walking into the kitchen to get something and vice versa every single time. I can’t imagine not thinking of my spouse when I’m ordering food for delivery.”
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