While it is generally best to avoid interfering in other people’s relationships, there may be rare instances where doing so is necessary to protect the well-being of one or both partners.
The Original Poster (OP) took it to the forum, and asked “What if I tell my best friend about her boyfriend’s surprise wedding plans?”. We want to know from you.
OP’s best friend’s name is Sara. Sara’s boyfriend, Adam, recently called OP to discuss a “surprise wedding” plan.
Sara is someone who loves organizing and planning things. She had previously mentioned that she wants a winter wedding if she ever gets married.
WHAT DID SARA RECENTLY TELL OP?
Sara recently confided in OP that she is thinking about drifting from Adam and taking a break.
Adam wanted OP to distract Sara the whole day. Then he would surprise Sara with all her friends and family gathered and then have a wedding in the backyard.
WHAT DID OP TELL ADAM?
OP told Adam that this wasn’t a good idea and that he should discuss it with Sara first.
WHAT DID OP SUGGEST INSTEAD?
OP suggested Adam to have an intimate proposal instead of having a surprise wedding. She also suggested Adam to have a conversation with Sara so as to know whether or not they both are on the same page.
DID ADAM TAKE THE SUGGESTION?
Adam told OP that he know Sara better than her and that OP shouldn’t stress much thinking about these.
WHAT HAPPENED NEXT?
OP told Adam that she feels obligated to let Sara know about this even so that she would be prepared for it. Adam got furious and had an argument with OP because OP initially agreed to the plan.
WHY DID OP INITIALLY AGREE?
OP had initially agreed to the plan thinking it was a surprise ‘proposal’. Now that she knows it’s a surprise ‘wedding’ instead, she wants to tell her best friend Sara about it, but is also confused about whether she should interfere or not.
Now OP wants to know if what she is doing is wrong?
WHAT DO PEOPLE THINK?
“For the love of all that is holy, TELL HER. You should never surprise marry someone.”, said one user.
THIS MAKES NO SENSE
“I kind of get the fun of a surprise wedding when it’s family and friends you’re surprising, but I have NEVER understood this logic of surprising the person you’re actually marrying.”, said another user.
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