Certain behaviors of people in public can automatically trigger us to judge them.
A user asked the forum, “What do you secretly judge people for?” Here are the top responses.
NOT USING VEHICLE’S TURN SIGNAL
“I judge people for their lack of use of their vehicle’s turn signal.”
NOT COVERING THEIR NOSE WHILE SNEEZING
“People who don’t cover their nose/mouth or redirect when they sneeze.”
PEOPLE WHO LACK SELF-AWARENESS
“People with no self-awareness. For example, when someone watches a video with high volume in public or when they suddenly stop walking, blocking the path for other people.”
NOT TAKING CARE OF THEIR CHILDREN
“Not taking good care of their children or being there for them.”
POSTING ON SOCIAL MEDIA
“What part of their life are they posting on social media?”
NOT BEING THANKFUL
“Whenever I go out of my way to hold the door for someone, and they don’t say thank you.”
THE WAY THEY TREAT PEOPLE
“How they treat people with higher social status than the average person.”
LITTERING
“Littering and not secretly either.”
OVERLONG NAILS
“Overlong nails look awful and are cumbersome.”
PEOPLE WHO LEAVE SHOPPING CARTS IN THE PARKING SLOT
“I’m disabled and in a wheelchair part-time due to my autoimmune condition. If you leave your shopping cart in or halfway in the parking spot, you deserve a slap. If I can put my cart away while confined to my wheelchair, so can you.”
BEING BROKE AND HAVING A HUGE FAMILY
“Being dead broke and having a huge family. I get it; we shouldn’t shame poor people for being parents. But at the same time, I also think you shouldn’t have 5+ kids if you can’t afford the ones you already have.”
CAPTURING OTHERS IN PUBLIC
“Those who take photos of others in public. I’m judging you.”
TATTOO
“A tattoo that says ‘Only God can judge me.’ Nobody was judging you until they saw that tattoo, guy. Now I’m thinking you’re either a criminal (likely a drug dealer) or have a persecution complex/anxiety disorder.”
THE WAY THEY TREAT THEIR SERVICE STAFF
“How they treat service staff. Waiters, clerks in stores, janitors, hospitality workers, etc. In general, people who think they are better or more important than anyone else.”
USING RELIGION TO JUDGE OTHERS
“Pushy religious people or people who use religion as a basis to judge others.”
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