Relationships are about finding someone who loves and accepts you for who you are, quirks and all. But sometimes, the weirdest quirks make us feel the most comfortable and connected to our partners.
A user asked the forum, “What is your weird green flag in a relationship that makes you feel comfortable with each other?”
Here are some responses he got!
JOY OF BEING TOGETHER IN THE SAME ROOM
“When we can both be doing something separate in the same room, in comfortable silence. I love when she plays games while I read or draw.”
RESOLVE CONFLICT WITHOUT YELLING
“When you can communicate something wrong, or that’s bothering you without any sort of yelling, fighting, or name-calling, and make it a discussion instead.”
COMFORTABLE SILENCE
“Talking is the only thing I do to make situations less awkward. But I know it’s real when I’m okay with being silent with someone.”
EXIT IN THE SAME SPACE
“Being able to exist in the same space and not having to interact 24/7.”
WHEN TOUGH PROBLEMS FEEL EASIER
“When tough problems feel easier because you know you’re in it together. Being able to talk about anything, dumb thoughts, worries, issues, without judgment, just a kind ear and perspective, etc.”
COULD FREELY FART
“Mine is also a fart. My husband accidentally farted on our second date, apologized, and we both laughed, at which point he accidentally farted again. I’ve never seen his face as red as it was that night.
I joked with my best friend that I would marry this man because I could freely fart in front of him so quickly. After all, he’d done it first. Six years later, here we are.”
NOT HAVING ANXIETY
“Not having anxiety around the person.”
WHEN HE LETS ME DRIVE HIS TRUCK
“When he lets me drive his truck. Let me know if he trusts me. I asked him once why he let me go his vehicle, and he said because I looked cute behind the wheel, and I drove the car just fine.
My ex wouldn’t even let me drive MY CAR, one of the many things I hated about him.”
CRYING
“I think it’s crying for me — because I can admit I’m weak in front of him, and so can he.”
INSECURE IN FRONT OF HIM
“I can be insecure in front of him. I’m a generally together person, but I got unsure about not being as good as one of the perfect moms at the school, and I was going into a mini-meltdown. My husband gave me space to do it.
He doesn’t like animals, but we have pets. His monologues about what the animals are thinking and the voices he uses crack me up.”
TAKING A NAP TOGETHER
“Taking a nap together. No rush, no places to be, no sexy moves, just literal ZZZs in the same bed (especially if it’s small and there’s no way to avoid physical contact).”
MAKING CONTROVERSIAL JOKES
“Making controversial jokes. We say a lot of questionable things just for dumb laughs. We both know those things aren’t nice or right, but it’s just us here. We can be as ugly as possible.”
EATING FROM EACH OTHERS PLATE
“Eating from each other’s plates without any hesitation.”
HAVING A DIFFERENT OPINION
“Having a different opinion on something is not a big deal.”
LOOK AT EACH OTHER PHONES
“I can look at her phone. She can look at mine. Neither of us cares.”
SHARING CHILDHOOD TRAUMA
“Sharing childhood trauma in like a fun way.”
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