While common deal-breakers like drug addiction, rudeness, and violence can clearly undermine a relationship, some individuals possess unique deal-breakers that may contribute to relationship breakdowns.
A user asked the forum, “What is an unusual deal-breaker that you have?”. Here are the top responses.
PERSON WHO DOESN’T LIKE FUN FACTS
“Not liking fun facts.
I know who I am at this point, and if you don’t enjoy random tidbits of useless knowledge, neither of us is gonna have a good time.”
INFLUENCERS
“Influencers/lifestyle bloggers are a big no for me. Staging everything in life for more likes is not how I want to live it.”
PICKY EATER
“The person can’t be a picky eater. I love to cook. I love to go out to eat. I love flavors and textures. So, a person who is a chicken-nuggets-only kind of person means nope!”
HATING PEOPLE FOR THEIR INTERESTS
“If you go out of your way to hate on people’s interests in certain genres of music. If you don’t like it, okay, move on.”
UNWILLINGNESS TO COOK
“Complete inability or unwillingness to cook. They don’t need to be the main person making meals; I love to cook. But I’m not a personal chef. It’s not my responsibility to be the only one making dinner because he refuses to cook/learn.”
NOT INVOLVED IN KIDS LIVES
“Not involved in your kids’ lives. It’s okay if your ex is not your friend, but you gotta make an effort for your kids.”
PEOPLE WHO FIND READING A BORING ACTIVITY
“People who think reading is ‘boring.’
EDIT: I don’t mean people who dislike reading; that’s fine; not everyone likes the same things. I mean people who say reading is boring and state that it’s like it’s set in stone.”
DISLIKING ANIMALS
“Anyone who dislikes animals.”
POSTING PICTURES OF MEDITATING
“Posting pictures of themselves meditating” on social media. If you are meditating, you wouldn’t be trying to convince everyone that you’re meditating. It’s just weird.”
NOT WILLING TO WATCH TV SHOWS
“Someone who’s unwilling to watch TV shows/movies with me, especially if they’re unwilling to watch MY suggestions but still want to watch theirs.”
CHEWING WITH THEIR MOUTH OPEN
“I also don’t like people who chew with their mouth open or talk with a mouthful of food. Gross. I’m out if you do that.”
OVERLY AMBITIOUS
“Overly ambitious. I don’t want a husband that’s never home ’cause he’s always at work or working even at home nights and weekends.”
CAN’T HANDLE THEIR EMOTIONS ALONE
“If they can’t stand to be alone. I am tired of being an emotional support animal.”
IGNORANCE
“Willful ignorance.
Things like flat earth or vaccines causing autism.
Gaslighting is right up there, too, but especially if you start trying to tell me I’m wrong about something I know I am an expert in.”
RELIGIOUS PEOPLE
“Very religious people. I have massive religious trauma, and I’d prefer to date an Atheist or someone that doesn’t take their religion that seriously.”
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