{"id":35832,"date":"2023-11-11T14:30:44","date_gmt":"2023-11-11T09:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/?p=35832"},"modified":"2023-11-11T14:30:44","modified_gmt":"2023-11-11T09:00:44","slug":"husband-faked-an-emergency-to-allow-his-wife-to-cook-for-seven-hours-by-herself-to-prove-a-point-says-she-still-hasnt-learnt-her-lesson-was-it-a-jerk-move","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mrsdaakuacademy.com\/husband-faked-an-emergency-to-allow-his-wife-to-cook-for-seven-hours-by-herself-to-prove-a-point-says-she-still-hasnt-learnt-her-lesson-was-it-a-jerk-move\/","title":{"rendered":"Husband Snaps As Wife Keeps Complaining That He Embarrasses Her and Wastes Time Cooking, Fakes An Emergency To Teach Her A Lesson. Says, “She Cooked, and It Was Horrible”. Is He A Jerk?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, it becomes necessary to hit some people with a reality check! <\/p>\n<p>An internet user <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AITAH\/s\/90ETppIAmm\">asked<\/a>, “Am I a jerk for allowing my wife to cook for seven hours to prove a point?”. Please look into this matter!<\/p>\n<h2>BACKSTORY <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_20645\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20645\" style=\"width: 1600px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-20645\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2.-doctor.jpeg\" alt=\"Group people surgeon at work in operating room.\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1200\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20645\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The Original Poster’s (OP’s) wife is a neurologist. Once a month, they have a tradition where they and four other families they are friends with from her work gather in each other’s houses for dinner. <\/p>\n<p>“This month was our turn to host,” says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>WHAT USUALLY HAPPENS? <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_14946\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-14946\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-14946\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/cooking.jpg\" alt=\"cooking\" width=\"1000\" height=\"704\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-14946\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Usually, OP cooks all the meals at home because his wife is an incompetent cook, although she claims she is a fantastic cook.<\/p>\n<p>“When she cooks, she would crank up the heat to max and say it just cooks the meal faster, and that it doesn’t make a difference, it does,” says OP.<\/p>\n<h2>FAST FORWARD TO FRIDAY NIGHT <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_27684\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-27684\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-27684\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/couple-fight-over-food.jpeg\" alt=\"View of a Young attractive couple having an argue while cooking\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-27684\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Friday night, OP was doing preparation work on all the vegetables since he was going to be cooking for around seven hours the next day.<\/p>\n<p>“I was almost done when my wife came into the kitchen complaining that I was wasting my time and should be helping the children. I got annoyed,” says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>YEARS OF FIGHT<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_33607\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-33607\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-33607\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/6.-couple-fight.jpeg\" alt=\"Couple Fight And Quarrel. Man Arguing With Frustrated Woman\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1055\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-33607\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>They’ve had this fight for years. If OP cooks something simple, for the next four months, his wife would nag him for weeks after each dinner with her friends about how OP embarrassed her. <\/p>\n<p>“This time, I wasn’t in the mood for fighting, so I wrote out the entire menu, with the schedule of when each dish had to be cooked,” says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>WHAT WAS THE MENU?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_21126\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-21126\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-21126\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/3.-lunch-to-work-meal-plan-food.jpeg\" alt=\"Healty lunch ordering. Work from home concept.\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-21126\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The menu was traditional homemade bread, four dips (roast aubergine, roasted bell peppers, cream and mushrooms, sour cream, and caramelized onions), two platters of cured meats, and sausages for the appetizers. <\/p>\n<p>“For the main course, there was lasagna and chicken skewers with an Indian marinate with two salads (green salad and cabbage and carrots). For dessert, there was a New York cheesecake and a lemon tart with Swiss meringue. <\/p>\n<p>There are two options for each because one of the husbands is lactose intolerant, and we will seem cheap if we only had one option, my wife’s words,” says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>THE FAKE EMERGENCY <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_20573\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20573\" style=\"width: 1600px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-20573\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/wtf-man-on-a-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Closeup annoyed young man with cellphone. Long wait times, horrible conversations concept. Human emotion face expression reaction\" width=\"1600\" height=\"900\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20573\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>When OP was done, he called his parents and had them fake an emergency. Yesterday, his parents called and said that a pipe burst, and they wanted OP’s help. <\/p>\n<p>“Since my wife is competent and can do everything herself, I took the kids to fix the pipe and let her cook. I spent the day resting while pretending to fix the pipe, and my parents were playing with the kids,” says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>WHEN OP WENT BACK <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_18081\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18081\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18081\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/dad-with-kids.jpg\" alt=\"Young,Gather,Playing,With,His,Two,Boys,Sons,Outdoors,In\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18081\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: HTeam, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>An hour and a half before dinner time, OP took the kids home so they could shower and prepare. <\/p>\n<p>“As I imagined, my wife did a horrible job. Either the food was raw, burnt, or a combination of both. Her friends probably went to McDonald’s after that dinner because we have a lot of scraps left,” says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>IS OP THE JERK? <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_25505\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25505\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-25505\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/angry-upset-man.jpeg\" alt=\"What do you want? Portrait of irritated brunette man with small beard and mustache in casual shirt raising arms in anger, asking why, furious expression. indoor studio shot isolated on pink background\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-25505\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>“Now she’s singing a different song and saying that I abandoned her when I was the one that knew how to cook, and she doesn’t and blames me for the whole fiasco. I still haven’t told her the truth, and I’m not planning to. <\/p>\n<p>But I wanted to know if I was the idiot because she still hadn’t learned her lesson and blamed me. When I do everything she wants, I’m the bad guy, but if I let her do things how she wants them, I’m still the bad guy,” says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>EVERYONE REACHES A BREAKING POINT <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_25674\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25674\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-25674\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/wtf.jpeg\" alt=\"Young hispanic woman standing over pink background shooting and killing oneself pointing hand and fingers to head like gun, suicide gesture.\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-25674\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>“Sounds like you at least learned that you’ll always be the bad guy. Now, it’s time to figure out if you want to continue living that way and what to do about it. Not the jerk for what you did, as everyone reaches a breaking point.” <\/p>\n<h2>CALL HER ON HER COMPLAINTS <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_25676\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25676\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-25676\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/WTF-MOTHER.jpeg\" alt=\"Photo of offended displeased lady show fingers open mouth wear floral print shirt isolated blue color background.\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-25676\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>“Not the jerk. When your wife raises it again, remind her she was unhappy that you weren\u2019t taking care of the kids and said she was the better cook, so since you cooked everything alone, why couldn\u2019t she? Call her on her complaints.” <\/p>\n<h2>THIS SITUATION IS UNSUSTAINABLE <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_25867\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25867\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-25867\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/angry-man.jpeg\" alt=\"young handsome man pointing forward at camera with both fingers and angry expression, telling you to do your duty against orange wall\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1337\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-25867\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>“Not the jerk. But this situation is unsustainable. If your wife is unwilling to reflect on her behavior, you need to decide whether you will seek counseling to find some middle ground or start the separation process.” <\/p>\n<h2>SHE’S PRIDEFUL<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_34251\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-34251\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-34251\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/1.-whatever-woman.jpeg\" alt=\"Portrait of brunette woman spreads palms, shrugs shoulders with perplexed expression, being indecisive, has no idea what happened, wearing striped dress. Indoor studio shot isolated on gray background\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-34251\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>“Not the jerk. I wouldn’t go so far as to say your wife\u2019s abusive but prideful. She’s embarrassed herself. You know her. Will she realize her mistake and come around, or is she like this about everything? She should’ve let you cook.” <\/p>\n<h2>Woman Annoyed As Sister-in-Law Tries For Another Baby. Tells Her, \u201cI Thought You Would Handle The Kid After Work\u201d. Brother Sides With Wife. Is She A Jerk?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_34216\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-34216\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-34216\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/4.-Argue-women.jpeg\" alt=\"Argument between annoyed Asian teenage daughter and upset middle aged mother. The child covering ears while mum pointing finger at. Bad, unhealthy, toxic family relationship concept\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-34216\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>While it is ultimately up to a couple to decide whether or not to have a baby, if they expect you to be a primary.. <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/she-told-her-sister-in-law-that-she-will-disown-her-if-sil-gets-pregnant-again-do-you-think-she-has-a-right\/\">read more<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Father-in-Law Yells \u201cStop Bothering Me Woman\u2019; Daughter-in-Law Angry. Asks Husband To Stop Talking To His Father, Should He?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_32664\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-32664\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-32664\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/13.-sad-annoyed-disturbed-woman.jpeg\" alt=\"stressed woman with headache, vertigo, dizziness, migraine, hangover\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-32664\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p data-sourcepos=\"3:1-3:82\">A user asked, Am I a jerk for telling my wife not to talk to my dad, but I will continue to? <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/his-dad-told-his-sons-wife-stop-bothering-me-woman-she-is-angry-and-wants-him-to-stop-talking-to-his-dad-he-refuses-who-do-you-think-is-right\/\">You decide.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Sister-in-Law Mad As She Ordered The \u201cSame\u201d Dish As Her Boyfriend. Says, \u201cYou Were Rude, and Made Him Uncomfortable\u201d. Is This Fair?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_25205\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25205\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-25205\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/mean-person-selfish-wtf.jpeg\" alt=\"young pretty woman looking angry, annoyed and frustrated screaming wtf or what\u201a\u00c4\u00f4s wrong with you against gray background.\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-25205\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Have you ever found yourself wondering about dining etiquette and whether it\u2019s acceptable to order the same meal as someone else at a restaurant? <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/her-sister-in-law-is-angry-because-she-ordered-the-same-dish-as-her-boyfriend-thinks-she-is-right-what-do-you-think\/\">Read more.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Girlfriend Upset As Boyfriend Demands Access To Her Bank Account. Says, \u201cI\u2019ll Give You $400+ A Week, But I Need To Know Where You Spend\u201d. Is This Fair?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17904\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17904\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17904\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Depositphotos_152928822_S.jpg\" alt=\"Husband and wife at home angry about bills\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17904\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>An internet user asked, Am I a jerk for demanding access to my fiance\u2019s bank accounts? Here\u2019s the full story for you to introspect. <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/boyfriend-demands-access-to-fiances-finances-she-refuses-is-he-wrong-we-think-not\/\">Read more and decide<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Brother and his Fiance Are Furious As His Sister Declines To Be A Bridesmaid. Says, \u201cYou\u2019re Exaggerating Your Work Situation\u201d. Is This Fair?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_18700\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18700\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18700\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/angry-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"couple fight\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18700\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In today\u2019s world, some jobs offer a great deal of flexibility, while others are demanding and require long hours.. <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/saying-no-to-the-bridesmaid-role-brother-and-his-fiance-flip-out-on-his-sister-knowing-the-reasons-is-this-bride-groom-zilla-behavior-we-think-yes\/\">read more.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This article was originally published on <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/husband-faked-an-emergency-to-allow-his-wife-to-cook-for-seven-hours-by-herself-to-prove-a-point-says-she-still-hasnt-learnt-her-lesson-was-it-a-jerk-move\/?swcfpc=1\">Mrs. Daaku Studio.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, it becomes necessary to hit some people with a reality check! 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