{"id":35587,"date":"2023-11-08T20:45:59","date_gmt":"2023-11-08T15:15:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/?p=35587"},"modified":"2023-11-08T20:45:59","modified_gmt":"2023-11-08T15:15:59","slug":"woman-pulls-out-of-the-family-vacation-on-being-ridiculed-by-her-sisters-for-her-choices-sisters-go-rampant-saying-shes-blowing-things-out-of-proportion-is-it-justified","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mrsdaakuacademy.com\/woman-pulls-out-of-the-family-vacation-on-being-ridiculed-by-her-sisters-for-her-choices-sisters-go-rampant-saying-shes-blowing-things-out-of-proportion-is-it-justified\/","title":{"rendered":"She Pulls Out Of The Family Vacation On Being Ridiculed By Her Sisters For Being A Gold Digger. Says, “The Vacation House Is My Husband’s So If I Don’t Go, He Won’t Allow”. Is This Fair?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As they say, you cannot eat your cake and have it too.<\/p>\n<p>An internet user <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/179zdme\/aita_for_being_the_rason_why_the_family_vacation\/\">asked<\/a>, “Am I a jerk for being the reason why the family vacation has to be canceled?”. We need you to find out!<\/p>\n<h2>BACKSTORY <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_23091\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-23091\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-23091\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/man-and-woman-happy-couple.jpeg\" alt=\"Portrait of his he her she nice attractive lovely gorgeous glamorous pretty, cheerful cheery overjoyed people having fun time lucky win winner rejoicing isolated over bright vivid shine yellow background\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-23091\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The Original Poster (OP) married for money. OP’s husband is with OP for appearances, and they are happy with their arrangement. <\/p>\n<p>“My husband and I married because I have all the ‘qualifications’ to please his family, and he takes financial care of me. We are very fond of each other and even love each other. But not in the classical marriage sense,” says OP.<\/p>\n<h2>WHAT IS OP’S MARITAL RELATIONSHIP LIKE?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_15169\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15169\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15169\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/happy-couple.jpg\" alt=\"Low angle portrait of beautiful family couple enjoying fresh air in the forest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-15169\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>She (OP) and her husband are like amazing roommates with some benefits. <\/p>\n<p>“He and I are free to live independently and without stress. He is not worried about being cut off from his family. I am finally financially stable and free to work my less economically beneficial job,” says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>THE PROBLEM <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_32559\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-32559\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-32559\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/7.-angry-confused-woman.jpeg\" alt=\"7. angry confused woman\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1359\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-32559\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>OP’s sisters have never approved of her decision. <\/p>\n<p>“They say I sold myself, which is fair. But still, we (used) to be civil with each other,” says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>WHAT HAPPENED LAST WEEK? <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_33602\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-33602\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-33602\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/3.-angry-and-mad.jpeg\" alt=\"emotion face. angry mad cross enraged woman. young beautiful blond girl portrait on white background.\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-33602\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Last week, they had a family barbecue. OP went without her husband. Everything was going great until OP’s oldest niece (21) sat down next to OP, and they started talking. <\/p>\n<p>“She straight up asked me if I was with my husband for money. I explained to her how we met, our agreement, and so on. She then asked me if I thought it would be okay for her to pretend to be her gay best friend’s Girlfriend. <\/p>\n<p>I told her it was up to her to decide and if there were no negatives to it (like her having actual feelings for him, someone getting hurt like a romantic partner, etc). It was a lovely talk”, says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>STRIKE TWO<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_25951\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25951\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-25951\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/sister-fight-1.jpeg\" alt=\"Woman shouting angry to another one isolated on a white background.\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1067\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-25951\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Strike two was when OP’s other nieces asked OP where her husband was, and OP told them that he was on vacation.<\/p>\n<p>“They asked me why I didn’t go with him, and I said that we only sometimes go together on vacations. We usually take little trips together but go on longer vacations with friends or family,” says OP.<\/p>\n<h2>WHAT HAPPENED NEXT? <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_20867\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20867\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-20867\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/wtf-woman-wife.jpeg\" alt=\"looking angry, annoyed and frustrated screaming wtf or what\u201a\u00c4\u00f4s wrong with you\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20867\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Her (OP’s) niece (16) asked OP if it was true what her mom and aunt said about OP being a gold digger, and OP just said, “I guess so.”<\/p>\n<p>“Like, that doesn\u2019t faze me. My sisters constantly talk about me behind my back, and I am not ashamed of my marriage. So I see no need to lie,” says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>LATER THAT NIGHT <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_35235\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-35235\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-35235\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/2.-Sisters-arguing.jpeg\" alt=\"quarrel two friends. Two women screaming at each other.\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-35235\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Later that night, OP’s sisters cornered OP, and they fought over OP’s words with her nieces. They said it was utterly inappropriate what OP told them. <\/p>\n<p>“I am free to live my messed up life but not to let my niece think it is okay what I do. I called them small-minded and said that I was only answering my nieces’ questions and was even honest. They are free to make their own decisions”, says OP. <\/p>\n<h2>THE CHAOS CONTINUED <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17847\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17847\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17847\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/fight.jpg\" alt=\"Young couple sitting on the sofa discussing at home.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17847\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>OP’s sisters kept cornering OP, calling her names, and saying she was influencing their daughters negatively because she was miserable.<\/p>\n<p>She (OP) said some words back and left, not talking to them the whole week.<\/p>\n<p>“Now there is a huge fallout because I pulled out of the family vacation because of this fight. But the vacation would be at my husband’s summer house. If I am not going, my husband feels uncomfortable lending my family the house.<\/p>\n<p>My family has been calling me a huge jerk, and my sisters said I was blowing things out of proportion. Am I a jerk? Should I still go?” asks OP. <\/p>\n<h2>YOU DID NOTHING WRONG <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_25863\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25863\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-25863\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/wtf-angry-1-in-white.jpeg\" alt=\"Emotional woman gestures with her hands discontent gray background. High quality photo\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1264\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-25863\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>“Not the jerk. You didn’t even say anything to the kids, let alone anything inappropriate! They were asking you inappropriate questions because that’s what they heard about you from their parents. Your sisters sound jealous as hell!”<\/p>\n<h2>THEY’VE TO DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_25824\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25824\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-25824\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/wtf-are-you-doing.jpeg\" alt=\"Young beautiful brunette woman wearing casual dress standing over yellow background clueless and confused expression with arms and hands raised. Doubt concept.\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-25824\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>“Not the jerk. Oh no, the consequences of their actions! Christ, if you’re happy, they should be happy for you. There is more to life than the way they live their lives. Good on you for being happy and helping your husband.” <\/p>\n<h2>THEY’RE SUPER SELFISH <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_25647\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25647\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-25647\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/omg-shocked.jpeg\" alt=\"Close up on funny woman expression. Female lady being surprised shocked having wide opened eyes.\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-25647\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>“Not the jerk. They want financial benefits for free and cannot even be nice to you. So, they seem to need a new accommodation for their summer vacation.”<\/p>\n<h2>THEY’RE JEALOUS AND JUDGEMENTAL <\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_25428\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25428\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-25428\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/scared-woman-1.jpeg\" alt=\"Young beautiful woman wearing yellow t-shirt standing over white isolated background afraid and shocked with surprise expression, fear and excited face.\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1334\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-25428\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>“Not the jerk. Your marriage affords you an easier home and work life. They want to benefit from that (use your husband\u2019s summer house), but they also want to judge you for it. They are jealous, plain and simple.” <\/p>\n<h2>Brother Furious As Sister Declines His Invitation For \u201cOverflow Wedding\u201d. Says, \u201cHe Needs To Make The Bride Happy\u201d. Netizens Think He Is Crazy. You Decide<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_34335\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-34335\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-34335\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/4.-couple-argue-fight.jpeg\" alt=\"Unhappy middle aged spouses experiencing crisis in marriage, upset husband and wife standing next to each other at kitchen, having quarrel, woman crying, copy space. Conflicts in relationships\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-34335\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Brother\u2019s wedding is an important event but can there a reason big enough for you to miss it? <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/brothers-to-be-wife-invites-his-sister-to-the-overflow-wedding-sister-refuses-to-go-and-is-furious-we-side-with-her-its-outrageous\/\">You decide who is a jerk<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Sister Refused To Host Nephew\u2019s Birthday Party At Her House. Says \u201cHe Isn\u2019t Allowed In My House\u201d. We Think She Has A Point.<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_28813\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-28813\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-28813\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/father-daughter-food-fight.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-28813\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p data-sourcepos=\"3:1-3:82\">Is it reasonable for a woman to refuse to host her nephew\u2019s birthday party at her home because she was unhappy with his behavior there? <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/sister-refuses-to-host-nephews-birthday-party-at-her-house-says-he-doesnt-behave-or-respect-boundaries-family-is-mad-is-this-fair\/\">You Decide<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Woman Refuses To Move Aside On The Hiking Trail For A Group. Says, \u201cYou\u2019re Rude\u201d. Husband Requests Not To Escalate The Situation. Is He Right?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_19722\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-19722\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-19722\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/rock-climbing.jpg\" alt=\"Beautiful Woman Climbing on the High Rock in the Mountains. Adventure and Extreme Sport Concept\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-19722\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Is it okay to walk casually in a large group while you\u2019re on a hiking trail and not care to make space for other people? <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/am-i-a-jerk-for-not-stepping-aside-on-the-hiking-trail\/\">You decide<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Groom Shocked As To-Be-Bride Forgets About His Daughter\u2019s Peanut Allergy. Says, \u201cI Don\u2019t Listen Well\u201d. Thinks She is Right.<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_19976\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-19976\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-19976\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/annoyed-bride.jpg\" alt=\"The,Young,Bride,Climbs,With,Difficulty,On,An,Imaginary,High\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-19976\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: kravik93, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>How would you respond if your negligence resulted in a child\u2019s hospitalization and a wedding cancellation? An internet user asked, \u201cAm I a jerk”. <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/groom-calls-off-wedding-after-to-be-bride-forgets-about-his-daughters-peanut-allergy-she-claims-i-dont-listen-well-thinks-she-is-right\/\">You decide.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Father Demands Daughter Split The Inheritance Equally Despite His Mother Giving Everything To One Granddaughter. Says, \u201cShe Intentionally Set It Up For The Daughter To Fail In It\u201d. Is This Reasonable?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_35433\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-35433\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-35433\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/9.-disturbing.jpeg\" alt=\"Clear expressions of intense discomfort and fear. Troubled by bad news, she's in turmoil, urgently needing assistance and solutions\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-35433\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>No matter how logical you think you\u2019re being, questioning a dead person\u2019s will and wanting to make changes as you please is not at all… <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/am-i-a-jerk-for-expecting-my-daughters-to-share-their-grandmas-inheritance-50-50-regardless-of-the-will\/\">read more.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This article was originally published on <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/woman-pulls-out-of-the-family-vacation-on-being-ridiculed-by-her-sisters-for-her-choices-sisters-go-rampant-saying-shes-blowing-things-out-of-proportion-is-it-justified\/?swcfpc=1\">Mrs. Daaku Studio.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As they say, you cannot eat your cake and have it too. An internet user asked, “Am I a jerk for being the reason why the family vacation has to be canceled?”. We need you to find out! BACKSTORY The Original Poster (OP) married for money. 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