{"id":25158,"date":"2023-11-22T21:30:43","date_gmt":"2023-11-22T16:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/?p=25158"},"modified":"2023-11-22T21:30:43","modified_gmt":"2023-11-22T16:00:43","slug":"15-reasons-that-is-making-people-not-want-to-have-children-do-you-agree","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mrsdaakuacademy.com\/15-reasons-that-is-making-people-not-want-to-have-children-do-you-agree\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Reasons People Decided To Live A Child-Free Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The initial excitement of a new relationship can quickly dissipate when confronted with challenges and obstacles that jeopardize the couple&#8217;s happiness. Have you ever observed a breakup triggered by a seemingly insignificant or trivial cause?<\/p>\n<p>A user asked the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskReddit\/comments\/153shps\/whats_making_you_not_want_to_have_children\/\">forum<\/a>, &#8220;What&#8217;s making you not want to have children?&#8221;. Let&#8217;s look at the top responses.<\/p>\n<h2>GOING TO ADOPT<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_34542\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-34542\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-34542 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/2.-struggling-mom-and-child.jpeg\" alt=\"Postpartum Depression Concept. Portrait of tired African American woman sitting with her small black kid on bed at home, feeling headache, touching forehead with hand. Exhaustion And Parenthood\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1334\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-34542\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;There are plenty of kids out there that need a home. I&#8217;m adopted myself, so if anything, I&#8217;m going to adopt.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>AFRAID OF DELIVERY<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_21069\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-21069\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-21069\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/angry-pregnant-woman.jpeg\" alt=\"Young caucasian pregnant woman isolated on pink background screaming very angry and aggressive.\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1333\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-21069\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m really afraid of delivery (and a little bit of pregnancy). My mom died while giving birth two weeks after my 5th birthday. My brother didn&#8217;t survive either.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s related or not, but I don&#8217;t like babies. I don&#8217;t know how to understand them and find them pretty ugly.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m always flabbergasted by the reaction of most people with babies. I&#8217;m fine with older kids; once they speak (even badly) I&#8217;m very fond of them, but early stages are not for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>FREEDOM<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_15077\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15077\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15077\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/pregnant.jpg\" alt=\"pregnant\" width=\"1000\" height=\"563\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-15077\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;Freedom! No judgment; I&#8217;m sure people who have kids are very happy and that it&#8217;s an awesome experience, but I couldn&#8217;t personally do it. I like being able to do what I want whenever. It&#8217;s really nice not having kids.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>MONEY AND THE ENVIRONMENT ARE A CONCERN<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_19062\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-19062\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-19062\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/angry-kid.jpg\" alt=\"angry kid\" width=\"1000\" height=\"668\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-19062\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;Honestly, I always thought I would have kids but it is not something I want to do in this economy and this environmental catastrophe waiting to happen. So to put it simply:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Money<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Earth&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>GOT A VASECTOMY<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_15456\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15456\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15456\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/are-you-kidding-me.jpg\" alt=\"I cant believe it. A handsome African-American man looking at the camera in disbelief with his hands on his head\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-15456\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;They&#8217;re expensive. I don&#8217;t have time for them. I can&#8217;t handle the responsibility of having my life revolve around one. I like my sleep. I can&#8217;t find a woman I would trust to help me raise one<\/p>\n<p>My parents were absolute garbage, that didn&#8217;t teach me anything valuable, so I don&#8217;t know what a GOOD parent looks like.<\/p>\n<p>I can barely afford to live myself. I got a vasectomy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>DIDN&#8217;T WANT TO SUBJECT A CHILD TO STRUGGLES<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_20220\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20220\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-20220\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/crying-kid.jpg\" alt=\"Crying,Afro,American,Pupil\" width=\"1000\" height=\"668\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20220\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Karpova, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;Seeing people I know have kids and how hard it is to be a good parent. They struggle emotionally and financially, and I just don&#8217;t want to subject a kid to having a life of that. Plus, my parents were not so good, so I didn&#8217;t have a good example of how to parent well.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>KIDS ARE LOUD AND ANNOYING<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_20118\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20118\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-20118\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/parent-tired-kid.jpg\" alt=\"Tired,Woman,With,A,Child,On,His,Neck,Sitting,At\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20118\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Ecaterina Glazcova, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;Kids are loud, annoying, expensive, and gross. I like my peace and enjoy having alone time. I&#8217;m also homophobic and wouldn&#8217;t want to mess up my body \/ live with issues like incontinence for the rest of my life from being pregnant and giving birth.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>IT&#8217;S A BURDEN<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17462\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17462\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17462\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/bullied-kid.jpg\" alt=\"child screaming, angry tired stressed neglected boy\" width=\"999\" height=\"629\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17462\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t want the burden of raising children.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>FEAR<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_20022\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20022\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-20022\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/bad-mom.jpg\" alt=\"Overwhelmed,Frustrated,Mother,Suffer,From,Misbehaving,Little,Kid,Bored,Disturbing\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20022\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: DimaBerlin, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;The fear of not being able to take care of them or give them a happy life. I want to provide them with the best upbringing, and if I fail at that, I&#8217;ll be devastated. I also have a fear that their future dad will leave me or die early on, and I&#8217;d have to take care of them on my own.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17338\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17338\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17338\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/upset-and-pregnant.jpg\" alt=\"Upset young pregnant woman crying and sitting on sofa at home\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17338\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;I have severe mental health issues. It would be unfair to bring a child to this world I couldn&#8217;t take care of.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>SELFISH<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_18367\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18367\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18367\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/angry-pregnant-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Angry,Pregnant,Woman,With,Mobile,Phone,In,Hands,With,Angry\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18367\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credit: StoryTime Studio, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m far too selfish to have children. I truly enjoy doing whatever I want, whenever I want. The amount of responsibility to raise a child and do it right is astronomical, and I&#8217;m simply not willing to give up everything I enjoy to pass on my bad genetics.<\/p>\n<p>Far too many people are already having children that they can&#8217;t properly love and care for. The world doesn&#8217;t need more of them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>DON&#8217;T WANT TO LIVE FOR OTHERS<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_21840\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-21840\" style=\"width: 1600px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-21840\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/kidnap-kid-from-home.jpeg\" alt=\"Child trafficking and abuse concept with small girl\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-21840\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Elnur, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;Wanting to live life for me and not for others.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>FEAR OF BIRTH DEFECTS<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_19745\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-19745\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-19745\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/upset-kid-with-mom.jpg\" alt=\"Sad little child, boy, hugging his mother at home, isolated image, copy space. Family concept\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-19745\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;I am a forty-year-old woman, and the possibility of birth defects scares me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>CAREER<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_19613\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-19613\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-19613\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/babysitting-kids.jpg\" alt=\"Babysitting,Is,Not,For,The,Fainthearted.,Shot,Of,A,Dad\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-19613\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: PeopleImages.com &#8211; Yuri A, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&#8220;Take up SO much of your time. Sorry, but my career is more important.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>12 Cities in the U.S. That Are a Total Nightmare to Live In (or Visit)<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16119\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16119\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-16119\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/shocked-woman-scam.jpg\" alt=\"young pretty woman looking shocked, angry, annoyed or disappointed, open mouthed and furious\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16119\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Looking to relocate? Here are 12 cities in the US where you might want to avoid setting up roots. These cities are plagued by problems like high crime rates, poor infrastructure, and a lack of affordable housing. <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/10-worst-cities-to-avoid-in-the-u-s-in-2023-for-relocating-or-travel\/\">Read here.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>15 Things We All Need to Stop Buying. It\u2019s Total Waste Of Money<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16172\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16172\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-16172\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/confused-woman-close.jpg\" alt=\"A beautiful young Caucasian woman with her hand in her hair.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"664\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16172\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p data-sourcepos=\"3:1-3:82\">To save money, reduce clutter, and help the environment, <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/15-things-that-are-more-expensive-than-theyre-worth-but-we-still-buy-them-are-you-guilty-of-any\/\">here are 15 things we can all stop buying<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>15 \u201cNon-Religious\u201d Cults That Almost Feel Religious. Are You Guilty Of Being A Part Of Any?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16113\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16113\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-16113\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/unbelievable-1.jpg\" alt=\"Photo crazy astonished guy see incredible vacation sales discounts impressed, raise modern bright specs wear white clothes isolated over blue color background\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16113\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>So many fads are turning into some \u201cdivine\u201d stuff people follow with an \u201calmost religious\u201d devotion. <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/15-non-religious-cults-that-almost-feel-religious-are-you-guilty-of-being-a-part-of-any\/\">Here are 15 non-religious cults that feel like religious ones.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>15 Physical Traits That Might Make You Less Dateable<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_15994\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15994\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15994\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/oh-no.jpg\" alt=\"Close up photo beautiful her she lady unexpected epic fail arms hands fingers near mouth bite teeth eyes full fear oh no expression wear casual white t-shirt clothes isolated violet purple background.\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-15994\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Physical attraction is an essential factor in many romantic relationships. However, it\u2019s important to remember that everyone has different preferences. <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/15-most-off-putting-physical-characteristics-in-a-romantic-partner-do-you-possess-them\/\">Read here.<\/a>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>The Exodus: Why People Are Leaving Religion in Droves<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_15950\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15950\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15950\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/shocked-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Surprised and impressed brunette girl looking amazed and pointing fingers down.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-15950\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Religion is a personal and complex topic, and there are many reasons why someone might turn their back on it. <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/reasons-why-people-are-turning-their-back-on-religion\/\">Read why people are leaving religion.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This article was originally published on <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/debunked-19-frugal-myths-that-dont-actually-save-money\/\">Mrs. Daaku Studio.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The initial excitement of a new relationship can quickly dissipate when confronted with challenges and obstacles that jeopardize the couple&#8217;s happiness. Have you ever observed a breakup triggered by a seemingly insignificant or trivial cause? A user asked the forum, &#8220;What&#8217;s making you not want to have children?&#8221;. Let&#8217;s look at the top responses. 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