{"id":20201,"date":"2023-07-25T02:00:30","date_gmt":"2023-07-24T20:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/?p=20201"},"modified":"2023-07-25T02:00:30","modified_gmt":"2023-07-24T20:30:30","slug":"am-i-a-jerk-for-saying-i-wont-pay-for-my-daughters-education-if-she-switches-her-major","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mrsdaakuacademy.com\/am-i-a-jerk-for-saying-i-wont-pay-for-my-daughters-education-if-she-switches-her-major\/","title":{"rendered":"Father THREATENS to Cut Off Funding Her College IF She Switches Major. Is This Reasonable?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Parents are typically expected to pay for their children’s education until they are financially independent. But does this mean that parents have no say in their children’s academic decisions?<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A netizen recently <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/delta8\/aita_for_saying_i_wont_pay_for_my_daughters\/\">asked<\/a>, Am I a jerk for saying I won’t pay for my daughter’s education if she switches her major? Here’s the full story for you to decide:<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Backstory:<\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_15286\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15286\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15286\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/couple-fight-and-sad-daughter.jpg\" alt=\"childhood, social issue, sadness and people concept - beautiful sad girl and parents arguing at home\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-15286\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As said in the title, last night OP sat his daughter down and told her that if she switches her major he will cease her tuition payments.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>What Does She Do<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_19914\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-19914\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-19914\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/dad-and-daughter.jpg\" alt=\"dad and daughter\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-19914\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">OP’s daughter is currently a freshman in college. She has just started her first semester and he’s the one paying the bill. OP had been saving for over 10 years to do this and he is happy to do it, as long as he feels she is actually setting herself up for success. <\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>High School Reference <\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_15978\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15978\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15978\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/mom-and-daughter.jpg\" alt=\"mom and daughter\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-15978\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/places-that-hire-at-15\/\">high school,<\/a> OP’s daughter fell in love with computers. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She took every class she could on programming and computer science and declared that her major when going to school. OP supported her through all this because he thought this is what she loved and felt it set her up for a <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/jobs-that-make-200k-a-year\/\">good job<\/a> after school.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>What Happened Yesterday Morning?<\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_14777\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-14777\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-14777\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/fighting-with-daughter.jpg\" alt=\"Young couple quarreling at home\" width=\"1000\" height=\"680\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-14777\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This last <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/jobs-that-pay-weekly\/\">week<\/a> she was on fall break so she came to stay with OP over the weekend after spending a few days at his ex’s house. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His daughter, yesterday morning, decided to casually drop that she’s planning on changing majors. OP was shocked by this and asked why and what she was changing too. She is planning on switching to the liberal arts program. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now OP knows the major is the go-to punching bag and it feels cliche, but he was honestly a little shocked by how casually she acted about this. <\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>OP’s Concerns & His Daughter’s Say<\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16912\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16912\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-16912\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/angry-daughter-with-dad.jpg\" alt=\"Portrait of stylish trendy couple having big drunk fight misunderstood indoors in modern light interior apartments hotel house\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16912\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credit; Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When OP tried to understand why she was switching, all he got was that she all of the sudden hates computer science and has made multiple friends who are majoring in LA. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Apparently, she has been talking with the councillors up there as well and they along with her friends have all recommended she switch majors.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>What Did OP Do<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_19376\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-19376\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-19376\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/mom-and-daughter-fighting.jpg\" alt=\"mom and daughter fighting\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-19376\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">OP tried to ask her the regular stuff like “What about your future”, “How do you plan to get a job”, etc. And she decided to ignore him and tell him that it was none of his business and that she was an adult. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This angered OP. He’s the one paying for this. He feels he has a right to know and not be blown off like that. <\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>What Happened Last Night?<\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_19773\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-19773\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-19773\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/daughter-mother-angry.jpg\" alt=\"Problems between generations concept. Teen closed his ears with his hands while her mom yells at her.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"668\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-19773\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credit; Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He thought over it all day, and so last night he sat her down and told her that while yes, she is an adult. OP is the one paying for her education, and he won’t be paying for her to get what is in his opinion a <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/useless-degrees-with-no-hope-for-a-career\/\">worthless degree<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">OP told her if she doesn’t want to do CS that’s fine. But she needs to put more thought into the change and find something that she enjoys AND can get her a career. And if i<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">n the end, she decides that she’s an “adult” and she wants to be a liberal arts major, she can pay for it like an adult should, with her own <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/how-to-make-quick-money-in-one-day\/\">money<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>What Does OP Say?<\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_18562\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18562\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18562\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/say-.jpg\" alt=\"Young handsome latin man holding cute puppy pet over isolated white background with angry face, negative sign showing dislike with thumbs down, rejection concept\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18562\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">OP says, “This did not sit well with her. We fought and she left saying I’m trying to control her life with money and am being a major jerk. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My ex called me up after and told me that I’m no better than a dictator right now and that I’m using her college fund as a ransom for her to do what I want. All I want is for my daughter to have a good life and job prospects. Am I the jerk here?”<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>Your Concerns Sound Reasonable<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> <\/span><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_18402\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18402\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18402\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/confused-man-scrtaching.jpg\" alt=\"Young,Sad,Puzzled,Confused,Mistaken,Thoughtful,Man,Of,African,American\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18402\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: ViDI Studio, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“It sounds like you don\u2019t care what she majors in as long as she has a plan. That seems entirely reasonable.” Said one. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“came here to say the same thing. my dad paid for my ridiculous college major (folklore and mythology), but I always stayed very clear and open about what the plan was and what kind of jobs I would be pursuing<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your major doesn’t have to dictate all you do. Outside my major, I got experience through clubs and internships gaining a lot of valuable and more marketable skills. there are many ways to set yourself up for a college career.” Another added. <\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>The Problem Is She Doesn’t Seem To Have A Plan<\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_18400\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18400\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18400\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/shocked-on-how-it-happened.jpg\" alt=\"Closeup,Portrait,Of,Shocked,Handsome,Worried,,Stressed,Young,Guy,With\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18400\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: pathdoc, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“Not the jerk here\u2019s why:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You asked her what her plan is with the degree. Before, when it was CS she had a clear plan on what she was going to do, what classes, and where to go in life, good. Now she wants to do LA, nothing wrong with it. But she has no clear plan on what to do with said classes or degree. Her first response was she\u2019s an adult and MYOB. If she wants to be an independent adult let her be. She can take out loans and support her lifestyle. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You saved your time and money for your daughter so she can be happy with her life. The money isn\u2019t there for her to blow in whatever she wants. It\u2019s for her future. What happens during sophomore, junior or senior year when she realizes long-term this isn\u2019t what she WANTS and the advice she listened to isn\u2019t cut out for her? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the end, it\u2019s up to you, but fair warning: **your relationship with her is at risk if she\u2019s only focused on the money**” <\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>Have A More Constructive Conversation <\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_18395\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18395\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18395\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/wtf-woman.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18395\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Prostock-studio, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“I\u2019m going out on a limb and saying no jerks here. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I do think it should have been approached better though. Like a proper sit-down, calmly discuss concerns and ask her to lay out her \u201cplan\u201d for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can\u2019t call you the jerk because honestly, I wish my parents did something like this for me. But now I\u2019m 32 with a useless degree, a very specific and not at all versatile skill set, and a ton of debt that I\u2019ll struggle to pay off over a long period. I didn\u2019t know better in college. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">College was just something you \u201chad\u201d to do, the next natural step, so I did it. I picked the only thing I really liked at the time and thought no more about it. No one ever really taught me how important it was to do more research before deciding, I was raised in a sheltered household where \u201canything is possible if you follow your dreams!!!\u201d That\u2019s great and all but I was never taught to be realistic, I was sheltered and naive to what adult life was actually like.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I guess calm down, list out your concerns and what you\u2019d like to see her think about, and see if you can have a more constructive conversation and let her know it comes from a good place, you just care about her future and her ability to have a good life.”<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>More From Mrs Daaku Studio<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16304\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16304\" style=\"width: 1099px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-16304\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/appalled-couple.jpg\" alt=\"Amazed african man and woman with open mouths looking at camera over pink background\" width=\"1099\" height=\"669\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16304\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Relationships can be complicated and you don’t want anyone to take you for granted. 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