{"id":18174,"date":"2023-06-19T02:15:30","date_gmt":"2023-06-18T20:45:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/?p=18174"},"modified":"2023-06-19T02:15:30","modified_gmt":"2023-06-18T20:45:30","slug":"things-that-arent-worth-your-blood-sweat-and-tears","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mrsdaakuacademy.com\/things-that-arent-worth-your-blood-sweat-and-tears\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Things That Aren’t Worth Your Blood, Sweat, and Tears. Are You Chasing Shadows?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not everything will work in the end just because you’re putting some “hard work” into it. Sometimes, we encounter situations that aren’t precisely worth working hard for, and there’s no way we should go about them otherwise. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are some things that just aren\u2019t worth working hard for? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskMen\/comments\/136x4mx\/what_are_some_things_that_just_arent_worth\/\">Internet responds<\/a> to top 10 answers: <\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>1. One-Sided Relationships (Both Personal & Professional)<\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_18082\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18082\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18082\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/shutterstock_677813476.jpg\" alt=\"Young,Woman,Yelling,At,Boyfriend,In,Hysterics,,Drama,Queen,Screaming\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18082\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: fizkes, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“One-way relationships and companies that don’t value you.”<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>2. Luxury<\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17979\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17979\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17979\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/6.-grandfather-clock.jpg\" alt=\"Bright,Living,Room,With,Beige,And,Olive,Sofa,,Love,Seat,\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17979\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Artazum, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“Luxury in general. Buying a house will go a long way toward making you happy. Buying a second home is not going to make you twice as happy. At some point you should realize that you are trading the finite amount of time you have to be alive for a paycheck. And more money equals more work equals less time for you to enjoy your life.”<\/span><\/p>\n<p>“Even with a single house, bigger\/more expensive =\/= better. The best thing I ever did was sell and move out of my gated community into a house I could easily afford in a neighborhood with no HOA. Its not the nicest house or neighborhood, but it has some things like a pool and a newly remodeled kitchen. I can afford it so much more. Paying 10% of your income toward a home instead of 35% is a game changer.”<\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>3. External Validation <\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17847\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17847\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17847\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/fight.jpg\" alt=\"Young couple sitting on the sofa discussing at home.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17847\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“Getting people to like you. Be yourself (but not a jerk). Not everyone is going to love you, and that’s OK.”<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“External Validation. You’ll achieve some of it during your life and notice it isn’t worth anything.”<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>4. Working Hard For A Big Company<\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17526\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17526\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17526\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/dinner-with-friends.jpg\" alt=\"Confident lawyer consulting his client in cafe\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17526\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“Absolutely pointless to break your back for something that’ll drop you the moment it suits them. Jobs are a marathon, not a sprint.”<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>5. Love & Respect <\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17589\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17589\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17589\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/fighting-couple.jpg\" alt=\"Upset Woman Sitting On The Bed With Man In The Background. Woman and man having a disagreement, Young couple in a bed bored woman\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17589\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“Love, if you gotta force it, then it isn\u2019t love.”<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“Respect, anyone that thinks respect is earned, is not worth earning it from.”<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>6. Working Hard At A Dead-End Job<\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17521\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17521\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17521\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/stressed.jpg\" alt=\"Tired businesswoman sitting at her workplace in office\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17521\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“I had some \u201cfriends\u201d tell me that they work harder in their <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/apps-for-odd-jobs-near-me\/\">minimum wage job<\/a> than in my office job and that I should be paid less. I agree with the hard work part, but I went to school for five years to get an office job while working min wage jobs and internships while they just worked \u201chard\u201d in their min wage job during those five years. Put me in a position not to work those crappy jobs anymore. So wasting your time working \u201chard\u201d at a dead-end job is a waste of time in”” <\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>7. Constantly Chasing A Woman <\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17130\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17130\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17130\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/couple-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17130\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“Constantly pursuing a woman. She isn’t attracted to you if she isn\u2019t making yourself available for you without making you work hard. Let her go and move on to finding someone else. You can\u2019t always have what you want.”<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>8. Designer Clothing <\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17978\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17978\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17978\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/5.-tux.jpg\" alt=\"Portrait of two lovely gorgeous attractive cheerful positive ecstatic stunned people rejoicing among flying decorative elements having fun applauding wow isolated on bright vivid shine red background\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17978\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“Some of it is so beautiful and well made, but if it advertises the brand, it’s worth zero. You’re paying the company to advertise.”<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>9. Becoming A Marriage-Worthy Man <\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_18013\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18013\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-18013\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/wtaching-tb.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-18013\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credit: Antonio Guillem, Shutterrocks<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“Marriage. Working hard to become a man a woman would want to marry is not worth it. Only 13% of marriages are described by spouses as “happy,” and a bad marriage or a divorce will ruin your life. Working hard to have most of everything I’ve worked for, my kids, and my future labor taken from me makes zero sense.”<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><b>10. Being Incredibly Fit<\/b><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17017\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17017\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17017\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/man-gym.jpg\" alt=\"man gym\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17017\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">“Being incredibly fit. Most people are a lot happier with being just fit, and not fixation levels of shredded.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Going from eating right and training five days a week to weigh everything you put in your mouth and passing up on life to be in the gym feels like way too much of a sacrifice.”<\/span><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>More From Mrs Daaku Studio<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17187\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17187\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17187\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/wtf-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"Photo of young attractive brunette curly hair lady speechless unexpected reaction bad news global poverty problem isolated on blue color background.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-17187\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>18 Things You Never Realized the Pandemic Has Completely Ruined. <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/things-that-the-pandemic-ruined-more-than-we-realise\/\">Read here.<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>21 Things You’re Saying That Make People Dislike You “Instantly”: Guilty of Any?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_17164\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17164\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-17164\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/angry-sisters-and-friend.jpg\" alt=\"Two agressive women having argue fight being mad at each other. 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