{"id":17241,"date":"2023-07-23T14:30:09","date_gmt":"2023-07-23T09:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/?p=17241"},"modified":"2023-07-23T14:30:09","modified_gmt":"2023-07-23T09:00:09","slug":"she-donated-some-of-hand-me-downs-by-her-sister-in-law-instead-of-letting-her-kids-wear-sil-is-angry-netizens-are-divided-were-her-actions-justified","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mrsdaakuacademy.com\/she-donated-some-of-hand-me-downs-by-her-sister-in-law-instead-of-letting-her-kids-wear-sil-is-angry-netizens-are-divided-were-her-actions-justified\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman Refuses to Let Her Kids Wear Sister-In-Law’s Hand-Me-Downs, Donates Some. Is This Rude? We Don’t Think So!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A woman recently refused to let her kids wear her sister-in-law’s hand-me-downs and donated some. Some people think this is rude, but we don’t think so.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_eYtD2XCVieq6emjKBH3m\">A user <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/12rz2l3\/aita_for_donating_a_bunch_of_handmedowns_my_sil\/\">asked<\/a>, <em>Am I wrong for donating a bunch of hand-me-downs my sister-in-law (SIL) gave us instead of letting my kids wear them?<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"_1hLrLjnE1G_RBCNcN9MVQf\">Backstory<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_14104\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-14104\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-14104\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Sell-Childrens-Books.jpg\" alt=\"Child in a school library\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-14104\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credit: rmarmion, Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<div class=\"_1hLrLjnE1G_RBCNcN9MVQf\"> <\/div>\n<div class=\"_1hLrLjnE1G_RBCNcN9MVQf\">The Original Poster’s (OP) sister-in-law (SIL) has kids a few years older than OP’s, and she was kind enough to keep some of their clothes aside to hand down.<\/div>\n<div> <\/div>\n<div class=\"_1hLrLjnE1G_RBCNcN9MVQf\">OP and family have graciously taken much of the clothing over the years. Some of them end up as rags, some of them have been donated, etc.<\/div>\n<div> <\/div>\n<h2>What Happened Recently?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_14271\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-14271\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-14271\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/keeping-old-and-new-clothes.jpg\" alt=\"Beautiful girl thinking what to dress in walk-in closet\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-14271\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<div class=\"_3xX726aBn29LDbsDtzr_6E _1Ap4F5maDtT1E1YuCiaO0r D3IL3FD0RFy_mkKLPwL4\" data-click-id=\"text\" data-adclicklocation=\"media\">\n<div class=\"_292iotee39Lmt0MkQZ2hPV RichTextJSON-root\">\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">Well, this past month, OP’s SIL handed off a bag of clothes for the summer. OP sorted through the clothes, but there were, unfortunately, some clothes that OP doesn\u2019t encourage her kids to wear.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>OP Doesn’t Encourage Wearing Advertised Clothing<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_20057\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20057\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-20057\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/scratching-head-woman.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"662\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20057\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Patramansky Oleg, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<div class=\"_3xX726aBn29LDbsDtzr_6E _1Ap4F5maDtT1E1YuCiaO0r D3IL3FD0RFy_mkKLPwL4\" data-click-id=\"text\" data-adclicklocation=\"media\">\n<div class=\"_292iotee39Lmt0MkQZ2hPV RichTextJSON-root\">\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">To be clear, the thing that OP doesn\u2019t encourage is clothes advertising something. A brand, media, etc. OP’s kids understand this and know that the rule is that OP will not buy them any of that. <\/p>\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">OP says, “<em>If they want to use their own money just so they can parade around advertising someone\u2019s brand for them, I don\u2019t stop them. And yes, I and their father model this behavior as well. My husband donates his company-branded fleeces as soon as he gets them”<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>How Did SIL React To This?<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16830\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16830\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-16830\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/mean-friend.jpg\" alt=\"Front view portrait of two angry friends arguing in the street\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16830\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credit; Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<div class=\"_3xX726aBn29LDbsDtzr_6E _1Ap4F5maDtT1E1YuCiaO0r D3IL3FD0RFy_mkKLPwL4\" data-click-id=\"text\" data-adclicklocation=\"media\">\n<div class=\"_292iotee39Lmt0MkQZ2hPV RichTextJSON-root\">\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">When OP’s SIL saw the donation pile had many of her offerings, she got mad. She told OP that it was a direct insult to her and her generosity. OP told her that the clothes would still get used by someone.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>What Did She Tell<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_20015\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20015\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-20015\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/scared-fright.jpg\" alt=\"Isolated,Shocked,Girl.,Scared,Woman,Concept\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20015\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Paulik, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<div class=\"_3xX726aBn29LDbsDtzr_6E _1Ap4F5maDtT1E1YuCiaO0r D3IL3FD0RFy_mkKLPwL4\" data-click-id=\"text\" data-adclicklocation=\"media\">\n<div class=\"_292iotee39Lmt0MkQZ2hPV RichTextJSON-root\">\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">She told OP, OP was being draconian and snobby and that OP’s kids are afraid to express who they are inside. OP says, “I admit that when she said this, I did laugh because my son is one of those kids who goes to school with nail polish and does things like slam poetry and chalk drawing clubs. Well, that\u2019s the issue. Am I a jerk for donating some of the clothes from my SIL all these years?”<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>What Else<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_20008\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20008\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-20008\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/wow-shock.jpg\" alt=\"Closeup,Portrait,Of,Happy,Cute,Young,Beautiful,Woman,Looking,Shocked\" width=\"1000\" height=\"752\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20008\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: pathdoc, Shutterstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<div class=\"_3xX726aBn29LDbsDtzr_6E _1Ap4F5maDtT1E1YuCiaO0r D3IL3FD0RFy_mkKLPwL4\" data-click-id=\"text\" data-adclicklocation=\"media\">\n<div class=\"_292iotee39Lmt0MkQZ2hPV RichTextJSON-root\">\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">OP also clarifies that for clothing donations, they donate directly to a church in their neighborhood that does clothing drives. OP thinks that\u2019s worth noting because places like Goodwill and The Arc have marked up prices due to <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/online-flea-markets\/\">thrift resellers.<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>You Sound Snobby<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_15545\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15545\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15545\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/wow-or-shocked.jpg\" alt=\"Young boy with a surprised expression with eye glasses\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-15545\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<div class=\"_3cjCphgls6DH-irkVaA0GM \" data-testid=\"comment\">\n<div class=\"_292iotee39Lmt0MkQZ2hPV RichTextJSON-root\">\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">“You are a jerk. You do sound quite snobby, and you describe accepting the clothes \u201cgraciously\u201d and then using them as rags, which is not gracious at all.”<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div> <\/div>\n<h2>Ask Her First Don’t Just Assume<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_15552\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15552\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15552\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/wow-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Photo portrait of crazy excited funny woman pouted lips impressed reaction unexpected cheap price clothes sale isolated on purple color background.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-15552\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">“OP, when accepting the clothes, the first thing you should ask is, “After I go through this, what do you want me to do with the items we don’t need, return to you or donate?” That way, it’s crystal clear what your intent is, and SIL can put the clothes to use the way she desires (which may involve skipping over you entirely).<\/p>\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">I give hand-me-downs to my sister for her kids all the time, and I preface it by letting her know to pick what she wants and donate the rest so she doesn’t feel obligated to keep items she doesn’t want\/need.”<\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>Not A Jerk<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_15871\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15871\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15871\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/wow-girl.jpg\" alt=\"wow girl\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-15871\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credits: Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">“Not a jerk. OP is still donating clothes. And not to some HUGE nonprofit that will use the profits for advertising and \u201cawareness.\u201d The clothes are being gifted to churches; last I checked, those sorts of places give out clothes to the needy. Even if they sell stuff in a rummage sale, church sales are infinitely cheaper.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">A gift shouldn\u2019t come with strings. If SIL wanted to donate hand-me-downs, she doesn\u2019t get to be angry when OP donates some too.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">Would SIL be equally angry if the clothes got donated because they didn\u2019t fit? I think not. OP is the mom; they\u2019re her rules. Her children are allowed to buy what clothes they want, but it\u2019s understandable that she doesn\u2019t want their drawers overstuffed with name-brand stuff her kids might not like or wear. Also, OP has the right to raise her kids with those beliefs. Many people are raising their kids to fear science and believe that humans exist alongside dinosaurs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">OP can disregard capitalism if she doesn\u2019t believe bodies are to be used as billboards.”<\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>That’s Not How This Should Work<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_16806\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16806\" style=\"width: 999px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-16806\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/annoyed-woman-wow-wtf.jpg\" alt=\"Portrait of an annoyed woman\" width=\"999\" height=\"667\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16806\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image Credit; Deposit Photos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">“Not a jerk. I think all of the YTA people don\u2019t have kids and don\u2019t understand how hand-me-downs work- you cannot micromanage what happens to things after you give them to someone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"_1qeIAgB0cPwnLhDF9XSiJM\">There are all kinds of reasons people don\u2019t take certain items- maybe they don\u2019t fit, maybe they have too many pants that size already, maybe they are not to their taste; I have never heard of anyone demanding that people use every single item it just doesn\u2019t work that way. 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Netizens Thinks She Is Wrong, But We’re On Team Grandma.<\/a><\/div>\n<div> <\/div>\n<div>This article was originally published on <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/she-donated-some-of-hand-me-downs-by-her-sister-in-law-instead-of-letting-her-kids-wear-sil-is-angry-netizens-are-divided-were-her-actions-justified\/\">Mrs. Daaku Studio.<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A woman recently refused to let her kids wear her sister-in-law’s hand-me-downs and donated some. Some people think this is rude, but we don’t think so. A user asked, Am I wrong for donating a bunch of hand-me-downs my sister-in-law (SIL) gave us instead of letting my kids wear them? 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