A Redditor approached the forum<\/a> and asked, <\/span>\u201cAm I wrong for telling my sister-in-law to grow and stop copying everything from Tiktok?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n
The Original Poster (OP) is a 42-year-old female with a 35-year-old sister-in-law who is easily influenced, which often embarrasses OP. <\/span><\/p>\n
Recently, the sister-in-law had been heavily influenced by TikTok. She had adopted a five-step skincare routine and had spent significant money on questionable products. She spent hours following makeup tutorials and used to wake up at 5 am to follow a workout plan from an account she found on the app. <\/span><\/p>\n
Her cooking was also primarily based on recipes she found on TikTok, and she frequently visited restaurants she discovered on the platform. <\/span><\/p>\n
OP felt that her sister-in-law needed to gain more originality and that she relied too heavily on the app, which she believed was primarily designed for teenagers.<\/span><\/p>\n
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With Easter approaching, the sister-in-law asked OP to bring a butter board recipe she had seen on TikTok. OP thought the recipe sounded ridiculous and confronted her about her behavior. <\/span><\/p>\n
OP expressed embarrassment over the sister-in-law’s teenage-like behavior and explained that no skincare and early morning workouts could stop the aging process. OP advised her sister-in-law that it was time to accept her age and stop wasting money on unnecessary products. <\/span><\/p>\n
OP also raised concerns about the sister-in-law’s life passing her by, that she was married and childless at 35. OP worried that the sister-in-law might regret not having children and spending too much time and money on her appearance.<\/span><\/p>\n
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In response to OP’s comments, the sister-in-law refused to attend Easter and stated that she would not give up on herself just because OP had. <\/span><\/p>\n
OP felt her sister-in-law’s remark was rude and uncalled for. Mainly because OP had two children to care for and little time to worry about wrinkles or the perfect outfit. The sister-in-law ended the conversation by hanging up.<\/span><\/p>\n
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Following the argument with her sister-in-law, OP’s in-laws became upset and decided to host Easter at their house. The sister-in-law felt uncomfortable attending Easter at OP’s house and would instead be preparing her butter board for the gathering. <\/span><\/p>\n
While OP’s husband agreed that his sister needed to grow up, he believed that OP should apologize and keep the peace to ensure a pleasant Easter celebration. On the other hand, OP believed that she was looking out for her sister-in-law’s best interests by encouraging her to accept her age and move on from her teenage-like behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n
What do you think? Was OP right in making such remarks? Was SIL right in choosing not to attend the celebration?<\/strong><\/p>\n
This article originally appeared on Mrs Daaku Studio<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"