{"id":16321,"date":"2023-04-08T15:05:01","date_gmt":"2023-04-08T09:35:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/?p=16321"},"modified":"2023-04-08T15:05:01","modified_gmt":"2023-04-08T09:35:01","slug":"she-told-her-sister-in-law-to-grow-up-accept-her-age-and-have-kids-thinks-she-is-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mrsdaakuacademy.com\/she-told-her-sister-in-law-to-grow-up-accept-her-age-and-have-kids-thinks-she-is-right\/","title":{"rendered":"She Told Her Sister-In-Law To Grow Up, Accept Her Age and Have Kids. Thinks She Is Right!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A Redditor approached the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/12anv0y\/aita_for_telling_my_sil_to_grow_and_stop_coping\/\">forum<\/a> and asked, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAm I wrong for telling my sister-in-law to grow and stop copying everything from Tiktok?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Backstory<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Original Poster (OP) is a 42-year-old female with a 35-year-old sister-in-law who is easily influenced, which often embarrasses OP. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recently, the sister-in-law had been heavily influenced by TikTok. She had adopted a five-step skincare routine and had spent significant money on questionable products. She spent hours following makeup tutorials and used to wake up at 5 am to follow a workout plan from an account she found on the app. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Her cooking was also primarily based on recipes she found on TikTok, and she frequently visited restaurants she discovered on the platform. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">OP felt that her sister-in-law needed to gain more originality and that she relied too heavily on the app, which she believed was primarily designed for teenagers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Read<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/they-cancelled-their-10-yo-daughters-birthday-party-because-she-didnt-wash-the-dishes-were-shocked-and-think-theyre-wrong\/\">They Cancelled Their 10 yo Daughter’s Birthday Party Because She Didn’t Wash The Dishes. We’re SHOCKED and Think They’re Wrong.<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2>What Happened Next?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With Easter approaching, the sister-in-law asked OP to bring a butter board recipe she had seen on TikTok. OP thought the recipe sounded ridiculous and confronted her about her behavior. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">OP expressed embarrassment over the sister-in-law’s teenage-like behavior and explained that no skincare and early morning workouts could stop the aging process. OP advised her sister-in-law that it was time to accept her age and stop wasting money on unnecessary products. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">OP also raised concerns about the sister-in-law’s life passing her by, that she was married and childless at 35. OP worried that the sister-in-law might regret not having children and spending too much time and money on her appearance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Read<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/she-is-a-picky-eater-asked-her-future-mil-to-make-a-different-dish-on-christmas-and-mil-refused-she-walked-off-and-went-home\/\">Future Mother-In-Law Refuses to Accommodate Her Dinner Requests For Christmas. She Walked Off, Went Home and Everyone Is Shocked.<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><strong>What Did SIL Say?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In response to OP’s comments, the sister-in-law refused to attend Easter and stated that she would not give up on herself just because OP had. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">OP felt her sister-in-law’s remark was rude and uncalled for. Mainly because OP had two children to care for and little time to worry about wrinkles or the perfect outfit. The sister-in-law ended the conversation by hanging up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Read<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/instead-of-giving-her-grandma-debted-14-in-the-will-netizens-thinks-she-is-wrong-but-were-on-team-grandma\/\">Instead of Giving, Her Grandma “DEBTED” $14 In The Will. Netizens Thinks She Is Wrong, But We’re On Team Grandma.<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<h2><strong>What Happened Next?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Following the argument with her sister-in-law, OP’s in-laws became upset and decided to host Easter at their house. The sister-in-law felt uncomfortable attending Easter at OP’s house and would instead be preparing her butter board for the gathering. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While OP’s husband agreed that his sister needed to grow up, he believed that OP should apologize and keep the peace to ensure a pleasant Easter celebration. On the other hand, OP believed that she was looking out for her sister-in-law’s best interests by encouraging her to accept her age and move on from her teenage-like behavior.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>What do you think? Was OP right in making such remarks? Was SIL right in choosing not to attend the celebration?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This article originally appeared on <a href=\"https:\/\/mrsdaakustudio.com\/she-told-her-sister-in-law-to-grow-up-accept-her-age-and-have-kids-thinks-she-is-right\/\">Mrs Daaku Studio<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Redditor approached the forum and asked, \u201cAm I wrong for telling my sister-in-law to grow and stop copying everything from Tiktok?\u201d Backstory The Original Poster (OP) is a 42-year-old female with a 35-year-old sister-in-law who is easily influenced, which often embarrasses OP. Recently, the sister-in-law had been heavily influenced by TikTok. 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